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DON'T WE JUST LOVE APOLOGISING?

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Submitted by burchellBABE on Fri, 15/10/2010 - 13:11

Sometimes we apologise too much in life even if there is no need to do so but  alwasy do!


We apologise when its not our fault maybe that person is the one in the wrong for instance when someone steps on you .We apologise when we didn't hear very well what was said.We even apologise when we were the truth wcich is the good thing to tell the truth but if it doesn't sit well with those who needed to hear it.


All of this is done for the peace sake...Has it ever occured to you that somethings are not fixed just because when you say im sorry people think that you are withdrawing and you didn't mean? Has it ever occured to you that by the time you apologise when its not your fault you are making that person feel superior over you? 


Sometimes you have to look at what are you actually apologising for... and that is not for the peace sake because many people don't let go, oneday they will remind you... 

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Babytee's picture

Dont we just love apologising!!!!!!!!!

Submitted by Babytee on Tue, 19/10/2010 - 17:21.

Nana there aint nothing true more than wat u jst said,ppl in this world love apologising even if its not their fault most of us do it for the sake of doing it and because we believe its the wryt thing to do,howeva doing it for the sake of doing it aint wryt because it has to be from the heart!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

burchellBABE's picture

yes I know that apologizing

Submitted by burchellBABE on Tue, 19/10/2010 - 08:24.

yes I know that apologizing is the sign of being humble but sometimes you have to look if it was your fault , and don't say im apologising for the peace sake because we all know that it won't be paece but that person will think you are scared... Which brings me to that don't apologise when you are not in the wrong rather live them alone and walk away. Yes MIMI-NASH  this one is for you NEVER APOLOGISE FOR TELLING THE TRUTH! 

Onesimo's picture

I also believe in apologizing

Submitted by Onesimo on Fri, 15/10/2010 - 22:26.

I also believe in apologizing even if thez no need as long as its gng to minimize conflicts! anyway you have nothing to lose expt pride!

mimi_nash's picture

angie

Submitted by mimi_nash on Fri, 15/10/2010 - 20:34.

lol..why do i get the feelin you're talking about me?

lol..

good one though.. but there was no other way.

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apologising

Submitted by E-manure on Fri, 15/10/2010 - 20:13.

Apologising is an indicator of humbleness,that's why it is used as much as it is,when you are used to apologising,it's hard to think about it as well...apologising eliminates rudeness